One Year Pics

So Eli got his one year pics today. It was a free session with pics included then you could (of course) buy additional copies. Before we went Aaron and I discussed how many and of what we would want. He kept pushing like... take the opportunity, etc. I was focused on "no money", as in we have none. So... we take the pictures and I order the copies that we had decided on. sigh...

Get home, and get a guilt trip. It was more expensive then we wanted but I ordered the photos as discussed! We aren't taking any more pictures for him this year....AARRRRRGGGGG.

It just gets to me because I have been totally in the penny pinching mind frame, and now get kicked because I did what we had discussed. Granted for the number of pics we got it was kinda crazy. But when you throw in the free pics with the purchased pics and divide it up that way it works out. ;p

Very sad... bummed... What was a great moment and a happy experience is now crap.

Purchasing Questions

The following post was written by Dave on sustainabledave.org . I did not write any of this. I'm just passing on the word...

Dave: I sat down at the keyboard this morning, all set to write up a new post when I found this note that I thought was worth sharing. I’ve had it on my computer for a while and, to be totally honest, have no idea where I found it, so I can’t really give credit where credit is due. My apologies to the original author but I assume that, given the nature in which it was written, they won’t mind me sharing it.

As I recall, this was printed on a little card that the owner carried in his/her wallet. Every time they went to make a purchase, they were confronted with these questions–all of which spoke to the underlying wish: I want my money to support the environment, not destroy it.

1. Is this purchase something I need?

2. Do I already own something that will serve the same purpose?

3. Can I borrow one instead of buying new?

4. Can I make something that will serve the same purpose?

5. Can I buy a used one?

5. Would someone be willing to split the cost and share this with me?

6. Can I buy or commission one made locally?

7. Can I buy one that was made with environmentally responsible materials?

8. Can I buy one that serves more than one purpose?

9. Can I get something human powered instead of gas or electric?

10. Can I compost or recycle it when I’m done with it?

11. What is the impact on the environment of the full life cycle of it?

12. Does the manufacture or disposal of it damage the environment?

I love this because it’s simple, to the point, and a great “thought tree” if you will. I’m actually going to write it up on some used card stock and pop it in my wallet right now.

Many of you may feel that it’s a little ridiculous to have to carry something around like this, and indeed it may be. Sort of like having your mom looking over your shoulder shaking her finger at you for something you’re about to do.

But consider this. According to Consumer Reports, the average American is exposed to 247 commercial messages every day. If you do a little quick math, that comes out to 7,212,400 commercial messages over an 80-year lifespan. Crazy, isn’t it? Of course, if you don’t watch TV, you’ll cut a lot of those ads out, but even then you’re still bombarded.

Look in any magazine, newspaper, Internet site, or on any city street and you’ll see ads everywhere. On billboards, vehicles, T-shirts, and in some instances, even people (don’t try that at home). And what are all these ads telling us? That we will not be happy, healthy, wealthy, wise, popular, or anything else–unless we buy these products.

So what do we do? We buy. And every time we buy, we create demand, create waste, consume energy, and invariably, in the long run make ourselves less happy. Sure that iPhone rocks, but only until the new one comes out, and then you’ve got to jump on the train and consume again right?

So do I think that carrying around a little piece of paper is really going to change the world? Of course not. But I do believe that in order to start making things better, to clean up this whole waste/consumption mess, we all need to start thinking a little different. And in order to do that, we need to start asking ourselves some hard questions. Why do we feel that buying things will make us happy? What is fundamentally missing that we are trying to fill with mass produced product? Perhaps a little reminder like this will help us start that process and put us on the path to commercial freedom.

OK, riff over. Write up the little list if you think it’ll help and run through those questions at the store the next time you are about to buy something non-essential. Before you know it, you’ll be steaming along on the non-consumption train and realize it’s really a much better place than you thought it was.

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Doing Fabulously

Seeing as it has been quite some time since I have entered ... here is a little update on how things are going...

Eli is a strapping young lad of 9 months! He has two teeth and is a very happy little boy.

Aaron is still working for Root River Valley Transfer. He currently has applied to a few places to possibly get out of trucking so that he can be home more often. He loves spending time with Eli, and it just melts my heart.

I am currently approaching my final week at LCCC. I am soooo excited! As of the last many months I haven't been treated well and I am looking forward to ending that torture. :D  I then will hold the amazing position of being a stay at home mommy! Yay!!!  Besides taking care of the homestead I will be working with Angie of Handmade Natural Beauty. Its a fabulous natural soaps, lotions, and cosmetics business. Very cool.

Hope that you are having a blessed Christmas!!